Saturday, February 20

We Wear many Hats!

As mothers and wives we wear so many hats; and more often that not no one knows or cares.
We take care of every and anyone including the hussy wearing some or all of following hats;
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  • Manager
  • Nurse/Doctor
  • Cook
  • Cleaner
  • Chauffeur
  • Laundry woman
  • Personal shopper
  • Accountant
  • Designer
  • Therapist
  • Spiritual guide
  • Teacher
  • Playmate
  • Confidant
  • Maid
  • Butler
  • Receptionist/Secretary
  • Greatest Advocate
  • Employee
  • Business woman

Wearing all these hats and maybe more is not an easy task at all we often end up over used, stressed out and unrecognized.
Most mothers and wives feel unappreciated and somewhat resentful that no one is saying "Thanks" or "A job well done" or offering some "Rewards"
I personally think that you could initiate an open discussion with your husbands and children; telling them how you feel, they would make small changes in attitudes that could grow to big ones.
This though will not offer you full satisfaction.

What should give you ultimate satisfaction is that fact that you are a multi-tasking, talented, organized, courageous, dependable, achiever who is an unsung "Super hero". And that you are the major driving force in your household/family.
Most importantly know that you are grooming and growing children who have a future and who you would be proud of. You would hold up your head and say to your self I did a "damn" good job.

On the husband front know that you are totally providing the needed push to achieve great heights and that you are fulfilling all your marriage vows and some more.......
But bear in mind you are totally in control, with out you the husband is more often that not like" a little babe in the woods". Learn to work this in ways unknown to men.
Love him even when you think he doesn't deserve it.

Lastly just know and accept that this is the "Bane of Womanhood"; we are made that way to care, worry, fix and support everyone and anyone. Our real reward is in Heaven.

Even the most supportive and caring husbands or children often take so much for granted in the home.

Feel give give some of your own pointers here! Please leave some comments